So I'm extremely bored so I just thought I'd express myself a little. So I've come to a point where I've realized a little something about guys and relationships ? Lol Listen up Ladies! If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. So please STOP making excuses for a guy and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. If a relationship ends because he was not treating you as you deserve then no, you cannot "be friends". That's a huge mistake. I've learned from it and its pretty much common sense why you can't be "friends" with him; because a friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. He's not worth your tears if you're not worth his heart, so stop crying. Seriously, you'll feel like a freakin retarded after. Don't stay in a relationship because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a few months maybe a year later for staying when you realize things are not better. If something bothers you, please speak up. Wow That's kind of weird coming from me because it's really hard for me to "speak up", But lets not let get off topic here =]. Moving along, Never let a man know everything. He's not your diary. He will use it against you later. You deff. CANT change a guy's behavior. Change comes from within. If he wants to change, he'll do it on his own, your nagging won't do anything but annoy the shit out of him and drive him away. Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are because he's NOT. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a guy define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Uhm because hello!! if he cheated for you, he WILL cheat on you. Makes sense huh? A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are not dogs. There's a few good one's out there.Heartache may probably be the worse feeling in the world, and healing does takes time, so deal with your own personal issues before moving on and getting into a new relationship if not then the relationship will not be any good [Im talking from experince here!] And DON'T bring past experiences into new relationships. NOT all guys are the same, so just because your ex was out idk "fooling" around; doing things he's was not suppose to does not mean this guy is. Learn to trust; It may take time but patience is key. You should never look for someone to complete you, a relationship consists of two whole individuals, so in that case he DOES NOT complete you he compliments you. Dating is fun, So even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right, make him miss you. Don't fully commit to a guy who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar, but get to know others as well. That is all. 

-xoxo Jenn